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What’s your favourite aspect of being a mistress?

Well first of all, I can choose to work when I want to and set my own work diary.

The thrill of meeting a client for the first time. The nervous apprehension that I see in their eyes and body language immediately gives me the correct mind-set. The challenge and pleasure that I feel in guiding my slave during the session is exhilarating. My dominance, power and calm control is very apparent to them from the moment we meet. Understand that quite a lot of clients that I see are first-timers. I feel very special in the fact that they have chosen to come and see me for their first live experience. They have suppressed fantasies that are now going to be experienced for real. In the pre-consultation discussion, I coax and use my expertise to understand exactly what they’d like to experience. I’m a good listener and I completely understand the submissive mind-set. I also love to make a concerted effort to present myself in the clothing that is going to have an arousing effect on that particular slave. First impressions are very important.

If you have anything further to add, please do!

Well, I’ll finish with a few pearls of wisdom if I may: Never be ashamed of who you are and what your preferences/tastes/sexual orientation/fetishes are, as long as you are not harming anyone in the process. It would be a great shame, if years from now, you looked back and regretted not following through with at least some of your fantasies because you harboured feelings of guilt and shame.